So you’ve posted your advert, you’ve gone through your replies, and you’ve found a couple to swing with for the first time. By now you’ve chatted on-line, got to know each other over the phone, they sound nice enough people and have the same likes and dislikes as you….She is bi-curious, he is straight, they are looking for a first time experience, and have been looking for the right people for sometime now. They live just an hour away, and are willing to meet you. You all admit that you’re not supermodels, and laugh about your nervousness….. I bet you have butterfly’s (I still do, five years on). Now, we run our own swingers site called Strangers4sex.com, feel free to browse the ads and make contact with like minded first time swingers. Continue reading First time swinging advice from young swingers based in Birmingham
If you are considering getting into the scene, then there are a few things you need to think about before you go any further. Maybe you and your partner have fantasized about it, and decided that you might like to go a step further and do it, but have you thought about the consequences? If either of you have any doubts, then you need to talk about them, and decide whether it is worth going any further.If you are ready to take the plunge then take a look at Sex4Strangers.com, there are many first time swingers looking for wife swapping fun.
Think about what you would be happy with your partner doing, and what they would be happy for you to do, then come up with your rules. For example when we first started swinging our rules were:
Safe sex (Nowadays couples are fucking bareback)
We would only swing together in the same room, not separate.
No arranging anything without the other there.
These rules were designed to help protect our relationship from swinging. It may sound a bit strange, but without knowing what activities we are comfortable with each other doing, it could be quite easy to do something that upsets your partner. Everyone has their own rules, and yours need to be Continue reading First time swingers thinking about wife swapping at Mel’s swingers party